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THE JOURNEY OF EXQUISITE LOVE
Relating is often felt and embodied rather than understood.
Just like dancing.
Imagine being at an event, dancing by yourself or with someone. Sometimes it's fun, playful or hot, sometimes it's weird and uncomfortable as you try to synchronize and synergize with another person's body, heart, mind, and animal.
Then you see someone next to you who is gracefully and effortlessly dancing with everyone and anyone they choose. And doing it SO WELL, even to the point of helping and teaching others to do it.
Then you ask them, and they tell you that they have been dancing and learning and feeling the dance for YEARS, that they pay attention to how they dance, that they LOVE dance with all their heart and love spending/sharing time with people that way.
Now, imagine: what if you could spend/share time -- to follow your desire or curiosity -- through intimacy, touch, sex, and play -- as if you did it as a dance? Like this person. As way to be fully self-expressed and fulfilled, to connect deeply with people?
This is my life's work and this is what I teach men and women, through one-on-one coaching and classes, through events and retreats:
To support them in becoming amazing and conscious lovers of life and humans, to dance the dance of intimacy with their partners, dates and loves.
To connect deeply with their own bodies and inner animals, to learn the skills and develop the experience to connect with others powerfully and gracefully.
To change the way we all perceive sex and sensuality as something to trade into something to share: a dance, a performance, or perhaps a jam session.
THE (MESSY) PATH OF GROWTH
This path of exploration and discovery of love and intimacy is often messy, and it usually leads to the uncovering of wounds—in yourself and others—that call to be healed and integrated.
And until then, these wounds call for needs to be fulfilled until these needs slowly—and sometimes only partially—become desires you can pick and choose.
Learning to self-care and care for others, learning to regulate your nervous system and supporting others in regulating their own, and learning to understand the way your nervous system interlocks—often in difficult ways—with the nervous system of others, is the path to gracefully engaging with sovereignty.
Book your free discovery session when you are ready to become the loving fully self-expressed sovereign human you've always wanted to be!
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“Kristopher’s simple structured approach to relating and sexuality, as well as his clear down-to-earth writing, makes this book a gem for any man wanting to grow the skills and qualities that will garner rave reviews from girlfriends, partners, and wives alike. I recommend this book to all men wishing to become better men, better lovers, and better humans. If any of them does just 10% of what is in this book, the world will be a better place indeed.” --Philippe Lewis
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