PODCAST: Unfunk Your Voice with Aaron Bigeleisen (Ep 1)

I’m so happy to share the very first episode of Aaron Bigeleisen's new podcast, Unfunk Your Voice, where I had the pleasure of being his first guest.

Aaron and I sat down for a deep, heart-to-heart conversation about the work I’m most passionate about: building "relational safety" and helping us all find better ways to connect. It was such a gift to reflect on my own journey and the lessons I’ve learned along the way.

Here’s a bit of what we dove into:

• My Journey: I talk about my transition from being a computer scientist in Montreal to becoming a "social engineer" here in California—applying that same engineering mindset to how we build human connection and community.

• Lessons from Home: I share a personal look at my childhood and how my parents’ ability to apologize and repair after a fight shaped my understanding of humility and accountability.

• A Chapter of Growth: I spent nine years with ISTA, and in this episode, I share more about my eventual departure from that organization. It was a big moment of transition for me, moving toward a way of relating that feels more authentic and personal.

• The Secure Network: We spent some time discussing the community I’m building, focused on helping people "earn" secure attachment through self-regulation and real, honest support.

• What it Means to be "Secure": To me, being secure isn't about being perfect; it’s about having the tools to bring yourself and your relationships back into balance when things get "crunchy".

• Finding Truth Together: We wrapped up with a look at how we can use our disagreements as a way to find deeper truths and build safer systems for everyone.

I’d love for you to give it a listen and let me know what resonates with you!

Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/y4TWVZSvF4M

VIDEO: Loving Our Tender Inner Parts with Philippe Lewis (The Self Love Show)

Other links:

• BuzzSprout

• Apple Podcasts

• Spotify

• Stitcher

• YouTube

In this week’s Self Love Show, Philippe Lewis will teach us a simple process to reconnect with our most tender parts, allowing us to continue the process of reintegrating our past and deciphering the lessons and wisdom that has yet to be uncovered from it.

In working with clients over the years, Philippe has found that our most difficult and dysregulated moments can be linked to aspects of us that sometimes seem to "pull" away from us in an attempt to be felt and heard, and in an attempt to remind us of a past we have not fully integrated. These "parts" are often either: 

1. The inner animal/primal, 

2. The inner child (under 12), or 

3. The inner teenager. 

This will no doubt be a a powerful hour as Philippe shares his knowledge on Attachment Theory, Self-Regulation, and Sovereignty. Not to be missed!

Philippe is a relationship educator. He created Exquisite Dark Love to support men and women in making better choices for themselves and each so they can become sovereign humans through the practice of connection, trust, consent, intimacy, love, and the exploration of attachment theory. He is the co-founder of ReMENber Brotherhood Journey, a coordinator with ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts, and a modern voice on critical thinking around morality and the integration of Masculine, Feminine, Dark, Light, and Shadow. Over the years, he founded the Open Relationship Community, the Attachment Community, and the Consent Community to support new emerging conversations on these important topics. He is also the happy father of a 9 year old boy who teaches him how to surrender to love and life more fully every day.

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PODCAST: BDSM, attuned touch, safety and exploring the edges of your yes (Passion Poscast)

In this rich episode Saora Love has a beautiful conversation with Phillippe Lewis about a broad array of topics. Such as touch, how to touch well, listening, consent, awareness, BDSM, pushing the edge of your yes, after care, sovereignty, polyamory/monogamy... And much more.

1:58 Who is Phillippe.

4:48 Touch… How to touch and listen well.

8:00 Understanding the polarities of feminine and masculine touch.

10:35 energetic agility… The balance of masculine and feminine, internally and externally.

13:50 How to be truly current and honest about how touch is being received.

20:27 how men can learn to trust a woman’s body as a guidance system.

22:50 what does safety feel like?

25:55 when Phillippe and Saora had a deep connection at a festival.

29:30 BDSM and pushing the edge of your yes.

33:44 Role play and the potential healing benefits.

35:25 What does Saora find exciting about BDSM and pushing the edge.

37:00 How BDSM can be an art of taking someone into a trauma state safely to have the opportunity to heal.

40:30 The importance of the way the sub is guided out.

42:40 After care.

47:20 how to cut cords/unravel energetically and return to sovereignty.

49:50 Saora’s journey with polyamory and monogamy.

53:00 Phillippe asks Saora to share her current relationship desires.

58:00 Saora shares whet she’d need in a partner now to not get distracted off her path.

SOVEREIGNTY: From Enabling Selfish Behavior to Responsible Empowerment: A Dynamic Conversation

Five leaders in the field of relationship, all of who have extensive experience working with Alternative Lifestyles and Open Relating, have a powerful conversation about SOVEREIGNTY.

Join Bruce Lyon (founder of HIGHDEN TEMPLE), Kamala Devi (Best Selling Author & Teacher), Philippe Lewis (Beloved Coach & Mentor), Scott Catamas (Founder of the Love Coach Academy) and Trish Wright (Founder of Embodied Happiness and popular Love Coach) for this conversation.

Learn more about Bruce at www.highdentemple.org, www.brucelyon.com
Kamala Devi at hwww.KamalaDevi.com
Philippe Lewis at www.exquisitedark.love
Trish Wright at www.Embodied-happiness.com
Scott Catamas and Love Coach Academy: www.LoveCoachAcademy.com

For information on ISTA go to www.ista.life

VIDEO: Loving Our Tender Parts (The Self-Love Show)

In this week’s Self Love Show, Philippe Lewis will teach us a simple process to reconnect with our most tender parts, allowing us to continue the process of reintegrating our past and deciphering the lessons and wisdom that has yet to be uncovered from it.

In working with clients over the years, Philippe has found that our most difficult and dysregulated moments can be linked to aspects of us that sometimes seem to "pull" away from us in an attempt to be felt and heard, and in an attempt to remind us of a past we have not fully integrated. These "parts" are often either:

1) the inner animal/primal,
2) the inner child (under 12), or
3) the inner teenager.

This will no doubt be a powerful hour as Philippe shares his knowledge on Attachment Theory, Self-Regulation, and Sovereignty. Not to be missed!

Philippe is a relationship educator. He created Exquisite Dark Love to support men and women in making better choices for themselves and each so they can become sovereign humans through the practice of connection, trust, consent, intimacy, love, and the exploration of attachment theory. He is the co-founder of ReMENber Brotherhood Journey, a coordinator with ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts, and a modern voice on critical thinking around morality and the integration of Masculine, Feminine, Dark, Light, and Shadow. Over the years, he founded the Open Relationship Community, the Attachment Community, and the Consent Community to support new emerging conversations on these important topics. He is also the happy father of a 9 year old boy who teaches him how to surrender to love and life more fully every day.

VIDEO: Love Coach Academy Straight Talk about Co-Dependency

In this video I chat with Scott Catamas (https://lovecoachacademy.com/) and Trish Wright about co-dependency as it relates to Attachment Theory.

Enjoy!

VIDEO: Dark Love, Pushing the Edge of Yes, Attachment Theory and Polyamory (Ashley Encantata)

In this video I explore a number of topics with Ashley Encantada (www.ashleyencantada.com).

Enjoy!

VIDEO: Social Media, AI & Attachment Theory (Yet Another F*ing Podcast)

Yet Another F*ing Podcast (EP 1)

Damien and I love having edgy, explorative conversations where we don't quite know where we are gonna end up. This is the field that we feel most inspired to play in.

In this episode we go on a fascinating tour through our relationship to social media, the AI algorithm that underlies it all, how it plays on our attachment theory, erotic energies... and more.

I LOVED this conversation. I felt so nourished by it.

Stay in beyond the first 10 minutes as we take off into the mystery!

You can contact Damien on his website.

PODCAST: A conversation on primal intelligence, consent & sovereignty (Deeper with Sophie Josephina)

Deeper with Sophie Josephina (EP 3)

For this episode, Sophie is joined by Philippe Lewis - relationship educator and so much more. A deeply intelligent and wise human being, an episode filled with practical insights to feel safer and more empowered in both your feminine and your masculine. They speak about consent, primal intelligence, attachment theory and sovereign relating. He is the creator of Exquisite Love Coaching and he works with men and women to support them in making better choices for themselves and each so they can become sovereign human beings through the practice of connection, trust, consent, intimacy, love, and the exploration of attachment theory. He is also co-founder of ReMENber Brotherhood Journey, a coordinator with ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts, and a modern voice on morality and the integration of Masculine, Feminine, Dark, Light, and Shadow.

Listen to the episode here.

For more on Sophie Josephina, check out https://www.sophiejosephina.com/