Welcome to the Boundary Card Game!
A long time ago, at the beginning of our open relationship, Paget and I made a thing on bits of papers to help us understand the boundaries we wanted for each other when it came to connecting with others.
We called it The Boundary Card Game
For about 18 years, this thing lived as a Word doc and eventually a Google Doc, and we would send it to people and clients who wanted to have the same conversation with their partners and lovers.
And now, it finally exists as a real physical *thing*, and it's been upgraded to help you design healthy rules and agreements to reflect the healthy boundaries, needs, pace, and desires you have for yourself and in your relationship.
If you've had a difficult time or have felt frustrated with having a conversation with a partner about what is okay or not okay for them when it comes to you connecting with others, or the other way around, this is a game changer.
Also if you're a therapist and would like to get a deck for yourself to possibly recommend as a tool for your clients, please let me know and I'll send you a deck!
I'm super proud of it. It was a lot of work and I now have 500 of these decks to share with all of you.
This page will continue to contain more information about the boundary card game, so stay tuned!
FAQ:
Q: Is it good for monogamous people too?
A: Yes, you can use the cards to explore boundaries and design agreements between you and a partner. There are instructions on how to do this in the booklet.
Here’s a link to purchase the game for yourself:
Thank you!